So Im still using the super basic Nokia phone(The Gooseberry) after loosing my Blackberry earlier on in the year. During the holidays not having an electronic device which alerted me to new emails, Facebook messages, BBM’s and the like was a pleasure. I was quite literally disconnected. And while on holiday its exactly what I wanted.
The question though, now that I am back in the swing at work, is do I need it now? And its a bit of a mixed answer.
Most days I’m at my computer the whole day anyway so can receive all electronic communications and updates anyway. When sitting at my desk the Blackberry was more of a distraction and excuse not to work than anything else. So thats pretty much a no.
When running around and going to meetings however, i did feel a gap. Often I have needed to be in email communication and of course the Gooseberry cant do email so it had to wait till I got back to my office. This scenario, in the not too distant past, was totally acceptable. Now that the ability to respond immediately no matter where one is located has been given to us by the Mobile Gods, its not. I felt a need to respond. A need to let the other person have whatever I wanted to send them. A need to feel connected.
Does this need come from me alone? Or is it two sided? Is there an expectation from the other side of the mobile universe?
I can only answer this from my perspective. When I send someone a BBM for example, my expectation is for a reply sooner rather than later. When I post something, like this for example, there is a hope that someone will read it and respond. I think as humans most of us have the desire at some level to connect with others. It is this desire in my opinion that is being tapped into with all the new technology and social media we see.
Is all of this to our benefit? Its a difficult sea to navigate. Often the communication is beneficial, often not. In some ways the world is smaller and we are all closer because of the technology we have at our disposal and in other ways we are more disconnected from ourselves and each other than we ever have been. At the end of the day its up to you how you use the technology available and how much you allow it to operate in your life.
Id be interested to hear other people’s opinions on this?(If anyone actually reads this) Does technology work for you?